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		<title>My Dad is Home, Now for the Hard Part</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 19 Jul 2011 06:15:56 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[For those who don&#8217;t follow me on Twitter (@davidbenj) or Facebook (facebook.com/davidbenj) you might not know what I&#8217;ve been up to the last few weeks. You may also be wondering why I haven&#8217;t updated my blog since Father&#8217;s Day. Here&#8217;s the story, and like my previous blog post it has to do with my dad. [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2011/07/19/my-dad-is-home-now-for-the-hard-part/">My Dad is Home, Now for the Hard Part</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>For those who don&#8217;t follow me on Twitter (@davidbenj) or Facebook (facebook.com/davidbenj) you might not know what I&#8217;ve been up to the last few weeks.  You may also be wondering why I haven&#8217;t updated my blog since Father&#8217;s Day.  Here&#8217;s the story, and like my previous blog post it has to do with my dad.</p>
<p>On 30 June my dad fell and broke the fourth cervical vertebrae.  He also sustained some wicked cuts on his forehead and the bridge of his nose.  The doctors also thought he had a concussion.  For the first 12 days, he was in the hospital, then he moved to a skilled nursing facility so he could do physical therapy.  It has been difficult on all of us.  Eliz, my mom, and I have spent many hours at the hospital and skilled nursing facility.  At least one of us was with him from around 10.00am until 8.00pm.  Some days a little more and a couple days a little less.  Eliz has spent more time in the car, ferrying my mom to the hospital in the morning and taking her home at the end of the day.  We&#8217;ve put about 1300 miles on the car since my dad entered the hospital, which is about 35% above what we normally average for a time period.</p>
<p>For the first week, my dad had a very restricting cervical collar and was unable to eat or drink.  Even swallowing was extremely difficult.  Once he received his current collar, he began eating and drinking again.  Anything he eats has to be soft or pureed.  Let me tell you, pureed lasagna is not pretty.  Liquids have to be thickened.  At the hospital and skilled nursing facility, this, of course, was all prepared for him.</p>
<p>My dad was discharged from the skilled nursing facility yesterday and all of us were happy, though my dad was a bit worried.  &#8220;Who&#8217;s going to do all of the things the nurses did for me?&#8221; he asked.  My mom told him she would.  Eliz and I lend a hand too.</p>
<p>The toughest part is the food.  Everything has to be pureed.  Unfortunately, the normal food isn&#8217;t that great at Maris Grove, so my parents didn&#8217;t want to pay extra to have &#8220;special&#8221; food brought in for my dad.  So my mom gives Eliz and I a list and we go to the market for her.  I&#8217;m pretty sure I&#8217;d be living on fruit smoothies and protein drinks, because things like pureed chicken just aren&#8217;t appetizing to me.  We also help my dad walk around the apartment, though with each passing day he is relying on us a little less.  Today, he walked from the den to the kitchen, rinsed out a glass and then walked into the bedroom.  He never called for my mom to help him.  The physical therapist said he shouldn&#8217;t walk without having someone close by.</p>
<p>We only spent a couple of hours with my parents today after running to Fresh Market and Acme for them.  My dad was in good shape today and seems to be getting stronger everyday.  My mom is happy that he is home and doesn&#8217;t mind blending everything.  Now I&#8217;m looking for a Super Bass-O-Matic 76&#8230;</p>
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		<title>Father&#8217;s Day</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 20 Jun 2011 03:55:09 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[We had a very busy Father&#8217;s Day. We went to Outback at 11.10am for lunch with Eliz&#8217;s father, mother, her sister Margaret, and our niece Meghan. Yes, I said 11.10am. More like brunch, I guess. I have to say that is by far the earliest I have ever eaten a Bloomin&#8217; Onion. It is also [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2011/06/19/fathers-day/">Father&#8217;s Day</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><div id="attachment_404" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 310px"><img src="http://icantcu.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/06/IMG_0484-300x225.jpg" alt="Me &amp; my dad at dinner today." title="me_and_my_dad" width="300" height="225" class="size-medium wp-image-404" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Me &#038; my dad at dinner today.</p></div>We had a very busy Father&#8217;s Day.  We went to Outback at 11.10am for lunch with Eliz&#8217;s father, mother, her sister Margaret, and our niece Meghan.  Yes, I said 11.10am.  More like brunch, I guess.  I have to say that is by far the earliest I have ever eaten a Bloomin&#8217; Onion.  It is also the only time I&#8217;ve seen Outback less then 90% full.</p>
<p>After an enjoyable meal, we came home to make peanut brittle.  That is our gift of choice to both our dads.  They both like it and it isn&#8217;t too difficult to make.  Eliz does the majority of the work, measuring, watching the temp, etc.  I pretty much am the designated stirrer.  I stir it frequently from 225 degrees up to 280.  At 280, the peanuts go in and it&#8217;s got to be stirred constantly until it hits 305.  Once the peanuts go in, it is a nice workout.  At 305, it comes off the heat and vanilla and baking soda are added.  I stir it vigorously for a minute or two and then Eliz dumps it on the table (onto parchment paper and towels) and spreads it out.  The whole process takes about an hour and a half.</p>
<p>My biggest contribution comes when I sample the product.  It takes about 40 minutes to cool enough to break into smaller pieces.  I usually start sampling about 10 minutes after it&#8217;s been spread onto the table and every five to 10 minutes there after&#8230;  Today, we were heading to my parents between 3.30pm and 4.00pm, so we had to &#8220;make sure&#8221; it wasn&#8217;t too warm to break up and stack it in a corning ware for the journey.  We don&#8217;t want it to stick together&#8230;  I also sample it along the way, just to make sure everything is good.  Today, Jane helped sample.</p>
<p>When we arrived at my parents, they invited us to dinner.  It is unusual for them to want to go out to eat.  Well, it&#8217;s unusual for my dad.  They like to go to Ruby&#8217;s Diner since it is across the street and fairly quick (as long as it&#8217;s not busy.)  I wasn&#8217;t too hungry today after the big lunch at Outback and all the sampling I <i>had</i> to do.  Eliz and the kids weren&#8217;t too hungry either, but my dad was okay with going out, so we went.</p>
<p>I had the Asian Chicken Salad.  It had grilled chicken breast, lettuce, bell pepper, and wonton strips.  The dressing was awful, the wonton strips seemed like stale tortillas, and ended up wearing honey mustard sauce and Oreo Fantasy milk shake that I tasted from Jane&#8217;s dinner.  Even that couldn&#8217;t stop me from enjoying the meal.</p>
<p>I am 46 and my dad is 93.  Eliz&#8217;s father will be 84 in October.  We are both so fortunate that we can enjoy time with our fathers.  It doesn&#8217;t matter what the food tastes like or how the service is.</p>
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		<title>I Can&#8217;t See Very Well, But My Hearing is Still Good</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[We visited my parents today. We spent about an hour with them. After we left my parent&#8217;s apartment, we were walking down the hall where a couple was sitting. As we walked past, Eliz greeted them. We didn&#8217;t know them, but everyone there usually says &#8216;hello&#8217; as you pass them by. After we were 15 [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/12/31/i-cant-see-very-well-but-my-hearing-is-still-good/">I Can&#8217;t See Very Well, But My Hearing is Still Good</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>We visited my parents today.  We spent about an hour with them.  After we left my parent&#8217;s apartment, we were walking down the hall where a couple was sitting.  As we walked past, Eliz greeted them.  We didn&#8217;t know them, but everyone there usually says &#8216;hello&#8217; as you pass them by.  After we were 15 or 20 feet down the hall, the guy says to the women, &#8220;Did you see that guy looking down?&#8221;  He insinuated that I couldn&#8217;t be bothered to look up.</p>
<p>Generally, I walk behind Eliz in the halls there because they are a little narrow to walk side by side and I don&#8217;t want to walk into any one.  I look down and concentrate on Eliz shoes so I don&#8217;t run into her.  I&#8217;ve found in the past, if I look straight ahead, I run into her if she stops or slows down when there are other people in the hall that may be blocking our way.</p>
<p>That guy&#8217;s comments irritated me.  Obviously, I look fairly normal, so there is no way he would know that I&#8217;ve got sight issues.  He made the comments after he thought we were far enough away that we wouldn&#8217;t hear them.  I heard them and didn&#8217;t appreciate them.  Am I too sensitive?  Probably.  I try so hard to be normal that when someone makes a comment like that it gets under my skin.</p>
<p>This is my last post for 2010.  Okay, stop cheering, there&#8217;ll be more in 2011.  Jacob has gone to his friend Andrew&#8217;s for the night and Jane has a couple friends here to ring in 2011.  Eliz and I have the Veuve Clicquot chilled and a couple of movies to watch.  I&#8217;d like to wish all of you a happy, healthy and prosperous 2011!</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;d been looking forward to today for the past dozen days. Back on 10 Dec, I went to my retina doc, who, as previously mentioned, noticed three things that he thought were causing my vision to be worse than it had been. Two of three &#8220;issues&#8221; were cornea related, while one was retina related (and [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/12/23/my-eye-my-dad-and-our-day/">My Eye, My Dad and Our Day</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;d been looking forward to today for the past dozen days.  Back on 10 Dec, I went to my retina doc, who, as previously mentioned, noticed three things that he thought were causing my vision to be worse than it had been.  Two of three &#8220;issues&#8221; were cornea related, while one was retina related (and not correctable.)  Today, I had an appointment with my cornea doc, Dr. Ayres.</p>
<p>As I was getting out of the shower, I heard the phone ring.  Jacob answered it downstairs.  Since he didn&#8217;t come up to mention the call, I figured it wasn&#8217;t for me.  Minutes later, after taking my morning eye drop, Jake came in and told me my mom called.  He went on to tell me that my mom said my dad was having shortness of breath and chest discomfort and they were going to the hospital.  I sat back on the bed and thought about canceling my appointment.  Since my mom didn&#8217;t ask to get me on the phone, I assumed it was a precautionary trip to the hospital (I later found out my dad didn&#8217;t want to go to the hospital, but since he mentioned chest pain, the Maris Grove staff wouldn&#8217;t take no for an answer.)  I tried to reach my mom on her mobile, but didn&#8217;t get an answer.  I felt selfish, but I decided I&#8217;d keep my doctor&#8217;s appointment.</p>
<p>We arrived early for my 9.45 appointment (seven minutes is early for us&#8230;)  After we checked in, Eliz tried to call my mom.  She got the voicemail (and knowing my mom can barely make and receive calls, didn&#8217;t leave a message.  A minute or two later, Eliz&#8217;s phone rang and she handed the phone to me since she needed some insurance info for the receptionist.  It was my mom.  I spoke to her and then my dad.  My mom told me what was going on.  My dad told me, &#8220;Don&#8217;t count the money yet.&#8221;  At that point, I felt I made the right decision to go to my appointment.</p>
<p>A few minutes later, I went back into (Eye) Pod 1.  I was able to read the L (but not the S) on the SL line (which is the 20/200 line.)  Dr. Ayres came in a few minutes later.  He asked how things were going and I told him about my appointment 12 days earlier with Dr. Garg.  He seemed to get defensive when I told him what Dr. Garg said.  Dr. Ayres then had a look at both eyes.  He started on the right one and quickly moved on to the left after saying, &#8220;That one is trash.&#8221;  This I already knew.  I haven&#8217;t seen anything but light with that eye since the last century&#8230;  After he looked at the left eye he told me that it looked pretty similar as previous visits.</p>
<p>He said the transplant looked good, though was less than perfect.  (It&#8217;s from a 69 year old donor and I&#8217;ve had it for two years.)  He didn&#8217;t see signs of rejection.  He said he could do another transplant if I wanted, but he didn&#8217;t think it could be too much better.  The downside was too steep for me, so we&#8217;ll revisit that at a later date.  Dr. Ayres also noticed a bit of haze behind the lens implanted in the cataract extraction in April of this year.  It&#8217;s called posterior capsule opacity.  It can be dealt with doing a procedure called YAG laser capsulotomy.  He said there is very little downside to this, so I am scheduled to have this done on 20 January.  I&#8217;m not sure if this counts as my 16th surgery or not&#8230;</p>
<p>Once we finished up with my appointment, we headed down Route 1 to Riddle Hospital to see my dad.  We spent about three hours with him.  The cardiologist met with all of us and said he didn&#8217;t think the problem was a heart issue.  After running Jane to a friends for a birthday party and a trip to Newark DE to pick up a small order, we returned to Riddle at 5.15.  We visited with my dad for about 45 minutes and then took my mom home, stopping for dinner on the way (she treated us to Ruby&#8217;s Diner.)  My dad was tired and seemed to want us to go.  Hopefully he gets some rest and is able to go home tomorrow.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Most, if not all of you, will think this isn&#8217;t really a big deal.  &#8221;Normal&#8221; people do this all the time.  What did I do on my own worth writing about, you ask?  I navigated about one-third of the Court at King of Prussia from The Walking Company on the lower level to California Pizza [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/11/27/i-did-it-all-by-myself/">I Did It All By Myself</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Most, if not all of you, will think this isn&#8217;t really a big deal.  &#8221;Normal&#8221; people do this all the time.  What did I do on my own worth writing about, you ask?  I navigated about one-third of the Court at King of Prussia from The Walking Company on the lower level to California Pizza Kitchen on the second level to put our name in for lunch.  I did it without running into any one or any thing.  On Black Friday.  (Though the Court didn&#8217;t seem much busier than an above average weekend.  On the other hand, the Plaza was mobbed.  But I digress.)  Sure, by the time I actually got to the hostess, Eliz and Jane had arrived.  I told the hostess my name and the number in our party (four) when I thought she was looking at me.  That was after I had to interrupt Allison, a women in line behind me who either has vision issues as bad as mine or was just really hungry and couldn&#8217;t wait to pur her name on the list.</p>
<p>It is always a big deal to me when I do something on my own, but especially as of late.  My vision has been exceptionally poor over the past week to the point that I have spent less time on the computer because it is such a struggle to read most things.  When Eliz and Jane went into The Walking Company, I told them that I&#8217;d go put our name in at CPK.  After walking past a few storefronts, I realized it was not going to be easy.  The people I was walking behind went into a store and there wasn&#8217;t anyone close enough to follow that was heading the same direction as I was heading.  To make matters worse, there were two groups of people coming from my left and heading to some of the stores on my right.  It kind of felt like Asteroids.  Once I passed those groups I realized I had to go to the upper level to get to the restaurant, which wasn&#8217;t too big a deal as long as I could locate the stairs.  Looking around for me while walking is pretty tough, but I didn&#8217;t want to stop because I&#8217;m stubborn and I wouldn&#8217;t need to stop if I had better vision.  I kept moving.</p>
<p>I found my way to the stairs, but just as I got there two people, who were together, were coming down side by side completely blocking my way.  I paused for a second to allow them to get to the landing and then made my way up.  From the top of the stairs to CPK the only thing I nearly ran into was plastic Caution sign.  I avoided the sign and walked into the restaurant.  I made it!  After that, the 30 minute wait for a table was a piece of cake.  If you were wondering, I had a half size of the grilled veggie salad with grilled shrimp.  Only 512 calories and very delicious.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[It was time to upgrade our mobiles, so I&#8217;d been looking around to see what is the best option for me. I&#8217;ve felt left out by not being able to text (not an issue with my phone of course, an issue with me&#8230;) For the last few months I&#8217;ve looked at a couple of the [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/09/09/my-iphone/">My iPhone</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>It was time to upgrade our mobiles, so I&#8217;d been looking around to see what is the best option for me. I&#8217;ve felt left out by not being able to text (not an issue with my phone of course, an issue with me&#8230;) For the last few months I&#8217;ve looked at a couple of the Droids and the iPhone.  I always came back to the iPhone because of the reviews from blind or visually impaired users. I got my phone about two weeks ago. I&#8217;m now wondering if I&#8217;ve made the correct choice.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t get me wrong, I love the idea of having it.  The ability to tweet, send and receive texts, shoot and upload images and videos is truly awesome.  Oh, and the ability to listen to <a title="Absolute Radio - Discover Real Music - is my favorite radio station on the planet." href="http://www.absoluteradio.co.uk" target="_blank">Absolute Radio</a> is well beyond that.  The learning curve for me has been huge.  I&#8217;m trying to be patient with it, but it has been frustrating.</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been using the VoiceOver feature for the last week.  This feature reads the screen to me.  The feature works pretty well, but there are some issues (probably me not the device) that drive me a little crazy.  Today, for example, I wanted to tweet.  It wasn&#8217;t anything exciting, but I was sitting at Martin Main Line Honda and wanted to &#8220;practice.&#8221;  Since there was a little noise, I had trouble entering in the letters.  I could enter them, but there were times that I couldn&#8217;t hear what letter I had selected.  When using VoiceOver, to enter text, you&#8217;ve got to tap three times.  Once to hear the letter, then twice when you&#8217;re sure it is what you want.  If I was unsure of a letter, I would lose track of the word and if it was spelled correctly.</p>
<p>I probably should have tried the VoiceOver before I tried the large text and zoom feature.  When using the large text (which doesn&#8217;t work on menu items, by the way,) you use the iPhone just like normal people would, by tapping on an item once.  After trying the zoom feature for a few days, I ended up changing some settings because I couldn&#8217;t see what I had actually touched while trying to maneuver around the screen (while being zoomed in.)  You can&#8217;t use both the zoom feature and the VoiceOver feature at the same time.  I&#8217;m not sure why.</p>
<p>I know that I&#8217;ll get the hang of it sooner or later, but like anything else I do, I want to do it NOW.  It doesn&#8217;t help that I&#8217;ve been trying implement things I&#8217;ve learned at Affiliate Summit East, go live with a couple of affiliate marketing sites I&#8217;ve been working on, learn to use WordPress so that I don&#8217;t have to ask anyone for assistance to launch those sites and others, keep running <a title="ForYourSalon.com - Professional Beauty Products and Salon Equipment" href="http://www.ForYourSalon.com" target="_blank">ForYourSalon.com</a> (since that is where most of our revenue comes from,) process orders we receive through Amazon.com (we sell beauty stuff there too,) and move Jake into his dorm at Westtown.  Not to mention local beauty deliveries with Eliz and some <a title="Digital Graphics Design -- web development, graphic design, web hosting" href="http://www.dgdesign.net" target="_blank">Digital Graphics Design</a> work.  I&#8217;ve been averaging about five and a half hours of sleep and I don&#8217;t see an end to that.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[So it&#8217;s been a few weeks since my last update.  There were several times this past week I wanted write something, but I just couldn&#8217;t steal an hour to do it.  It&#8217;s Sunday night, Eliz is sleeping and the kids are both away.  Here is my chance! I&#8217;ve been wanting to go to Affiliate Summit [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/08/09/what-a-busy-week/">What a Busy Week</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>So it&#8217;s been a few weeks since my last update.  There were several times this past week I wanted write something, but I just couldn&#8217;t steal an hour to do it.  It&#8217;s Sunday night, Eliz is sleeping and the kids are both away.  Here is my chance!</p>
<p>I&#8217;ve been wanting to go to <a title="Affiliate Summit East 2010 in NYC 15-17 August." href="http://www.affiliatesummit.com/" target="_blank">Affiliate Summit East</a> in New York since I learned about it a few months ago.  My one big problem was how.  If Eliz went with me, how would we run <a title="ForYourSalon.com - Professional beauty products and salon equipment For Your Salon." href="http://www.foryoursalon.com" target="_blank">ForYourSalon.com</a> and ship orders?  And, more importantly, even if we conceded that there will probably be few orders since it is the middle of August, what would we do with the kids?  Also, since Eliz was going to assist me, I didn&#8217;t think it would be fair to have to pay for her.  If I could go on my own, I would.  (The last time I did something like this on my own was in January 2001.  I flew to Miami for a Taylor Rental event &#8211; we were interested in purchasing the one in Media and my prospective partner bailed on the event two days before we were to leave.  I went anyway and had a very tough time getting around the airport, hotel, and event, even though my vision was substantially better than today &#8211; between 20/80 &#8211; 20/100.)</p>
<p>Fortunately, after an email to #ASE10, I was able to work something out on entry fee for Eliz by providing a letter from one of my eye doctors.  Conveniently, I had an appointment with Dr. Ayres, the cornea specialist this past week and he agreed to write the letter for me (more on the appointment later.)  I&#8217;d like to thank Amy from Affiliate Summit for all her help!</p>
<p>The big question was about the kids.  Do we take them and let them take in the sights of NYC on their own?  The Museum of Modern Art is across the street from where the event will be held and 5th Ave is only a block away.  The bottom line was that we didn&#8217;t feel comfortable with that and thought it would be too great of a distraction for us.  We&#8217;ll take the kids back another time.  Eliz&#8217;s mother (Grandmere to the kids) will sleep here the two nights we won&#8217;t be here.  She&#8217;ll also grab dinner for them.  As she says, she&#8217;ll supervise not babysit.</p>
<p>So, along with doing my normal routine of communicating with customers, updating shipping status&#8217;, and helping Eliz with the heavier deliveries, I was also constantly checking  Hotels.com (<a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-3880275-10473699" target="_blank">Hotels.com</a> by city, dates and number of guests<img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/image-3880275-10473699" width="1" height="1" border="0"/>) for a place to stay since I missed out on the good deals through the event at the New York Hilton, where the event is being held.  I just couldn&#8217;t pay $400 per night plus taxes to stay there&#8230;  So, the post is sponsored by <a href="http://www.tkqlhce.com/click-3880275-10473699" target="_blank">Hotels.com</a><img src="http://www.ftjcfx.com/image-3880275-10473699" width="1" height="1" border="0"/>.</p>
<p>I also had a few things to do for <a href="http://www.dgdesign.net" title=<br />
Digital Graphics Design, Media's premier web development firm specializing in e-commerce development, corporate identity, and web hosting solutions."> Digital Graphics Design</a>.  The main item was end of the month invoicing.  We had picked up a couple more hosting accounts, plus Dan had completed some updates for current clients.  While my title is president, my actions are primarily as bookkeeper&#8230;  Dan did get a lead for an e-commerce, so Dan, Ken, and I kicked around pricing for that after doing some research on what the prospective client wants.  Keep your fingers crossed&#8230;  In other spare time, I&#8217;ve been helping a friend who just opened a shop by creating a logo and working on a website for her.  I really miss doing that, but I don&#8217;t feel my work is up to par to actually charge for it.</p>
<p>This past Wednesday afternoon, I had an appointment with Dr. Ayres, as I mentioned above.  There wasn&#8217;t much of a change.  The eye chart seemed a bit blurrier than at my appointment a few weeks earlier with Dr. Garg.  I could read the E, but the S in the SL line was difficult for me.  I&#8217;m not sure if I would&#8217;ve been able to read it if I didn&#8217;t know what it was.  Dr. Ayres had a look and we spoke about the fluctuation in my vision.  He had Gordon do some sort of scan to measure my cornea.  They used a machine they were trying out and he hoped that he&#8217;d still have it at my next appointment to get another scan at a different time of day.  Looking into the machine, I saw what looked like one of the flowers on the Mystery Machine.  Zoinks!  While I was having the scan done, Eliz asked Dr. Ayres about writing the letter for the Affiliate Summit.  When we returned to Pod 2 (I still don&#8217;t know why they don&#8217;t call them EyePod 1, 2, and 3&#8230;) Dr Ayres and I talked about the letter.  He told me to continue on the eye drops and come back in six weeks, in the morning.  So while there weren&#8217;t any miraculous breakthroughs on why my vision can&#8217;t get back to where it was just after the surgery in mid-April, I wasn&#8217;t really expecting too much and my IOP remains stead at eight, which is good considering it could get wacky (cuckoo bananas?) because of the drops that I&#8217;m on.  As promised, Dr. Ayres had the letter to me by the next morning.</p>
<p>It&#8217;ll be interesting to see if this week is as frantic as last week.  Since both kids are away, it will certainly be more quiet here.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[Last week, we invited my parents over for dinner.  Eliz was making ribs on the grill, which both of them like, and there was more than plenty for all of us.  (Jake ended up having a few, but Jane was okay to pass on them.)  Two full racks and we still didn&#8217;t eat them all [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/07/07/the-blind-leading-the-blind/">The Blind Leading the Blind</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Last week, we invited my parents over for dinner.  Eliz was making ribs on the grill, which both of them like, and there was more than plenty for all of us.  (Jake ended up having a few, but Jane was okay to pass on them.)  Two full racks and we still didn&#8217;t eat them all (though in eight months ago I probably would have finished them off.)</p>
<p>My parents hadn&#8217;t been here in a long time, since we usually go to them (and my mother doesn&#8217;t like doing the drive) and m<span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">y dad has been interested in seeing our house again.  He is becoming more forgetful over the past months, which even he recognizes.  I have been complaining (hey, it&#8217;s what I do best) lately about the state of our house and he wanted to see it first hand, so we picked them up and brought them over.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">Since we&#8217;ve moved <a title="Salon Supplies + Interiors sells professional beauty supplies and salon equipment online at ForYourSalon.com or call 888.794.1010!" href="http://www.ForMySalon.com" target="_blank">Salon Supplies + Interiors</a> and <a title="ForYourSalon.com - Professional beauty supplies and salon equipment For Your Salon." href="http://www.ForYourSalon.com" target="_blank">ForYourSalon.com</a> out of the now condemned rental space in Folcroft and work it primarily from our home office, our home has been overwhelmed with computers, beauty supplies, and even some salon equipment (hydraulic styling chairs make a unique second row of seating to watch movies or sporting events on the big screen.)  Anyway, as we receive orders from manufacturers and vendors, we bring them home, sort them, and add them to our inventory.  If I walked into our kitchen at this moment, I&#8217;d be shocked if there wasn&#8217;t at least a couple of beauty related items in there, if not a case or three.  (I had to look&#8230;  Only one item in the kitchen &#8212; a bowl bracket for a Belvedere 3100 shampoo bowl which we are shipping via UPS Ground to Hawaii.  I&#8217;m not sure how that works, but that&#8217;s another story.)  Within arms length of me at this moment, there is a sample of <a title="Fabulous Hair Argan Oil Plus Coming Soon to ForYourSalon.com" href="http://healthandbeautylabs.com/buynow.html">Fabulous Hair Argan Oil Plus</a> (which we may start selling) and <a title="Ship-Shape Liquid Professional Surface Cleaner coming soon to ForYourSalon.com!" href="http://barbicide.com/ship-shape_spray.html" target="_blank">Ship-Shape Liquid Professional Surface Cleaner</a> (which has to be added to our inventory on <a title="Ship-Shape Liquid Professional Surface Cleaner from the makers of Barbicide coming soon to ForYourSalon.com!" href="http://www.ForYourSalon.com" target="_blank">ForYourSalon.com</a>.)</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">My parents entered through our garage (which up until yesterday, we hadn&#8217;t parked in since late March) and noticed some of our inventory which doesn&#8217;t need climate control temps, but sells well enough to not have to run to Springfield (where we have some leased space) and bring it back to ship it.  They also saw boxes of business documents from the past three or four years.  Through in a few of our personal items like bikes, snow shovels, gardening tools, toys &#8212; well, you get the idea.  Did I mention it is a three car garage?  Of course, most of what my dad focused on was inventory.  He was surprised.  We walked through the laundry room into the kitchen and kids greeted us.  The kids and my parents talked for a couple of minutes, then I continued to walk around the house with my dad.  We&#8217;ve been here 17 years and we are well overdue for some new paint, new rugs, and a redo for the hardwood floors, which, even with his diminished eye sight, my dad noticed.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">We walked out the front door and he had a look around the front and side yards, which our lawn guy had just taken care of the past week, so it looked nice.  All along the way, I was near my dad making sure he didn&#8217;t trip over a root of a tree or into a flower bed.  It seemed funny, because it is just like what Eliz or the kids do for me when we are out and about.  The difference being that I&#8217;ve already stumbled on the root or into the flower bed or hit my head on a low branch and know where not to walk&#8230;  As we headed back in the front door, I point out the small step onto the landing by the front door and then the step into the house.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">Back inside, my dad wants a look upstairs.  We go up the front stairs since there is two small landings (the backstairs is one long run and I wouldn&#8217;t have been comfortable heading up that way.)  He looked in Jake&#8217;s room, then Jane&#8217;s, then our &#8220;guest&#8221; room.  It really isn&#8217;t for guests, but has an elliptical machine, exercise bike, and four drying racks where we dry most of our clothes.  He recognizes the bureau in there from our house in Wallingford.  When we get to our bedroom, my dad also recognizes the wall units in the sitting area, also from our house in Wallingford.  As we head back down the stairs, I want to stay close to my dad, but not too close where I might bump him or kick him (I have trouble judging distances and am constantly reaching further than I have to for door knobs, light switches, etc. and jamming my fingers.)  We make it down safely, then eat dinner.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">After dinner, he wants a look in the basement.  There aren&#8217;t any handrails down those steps since we removed them to get some shelving down there.  I walk in front of my dad and go down backwards so I can tell him where the landings are.  I show him the inventory that we have there on one side of the basement, but not the 17 years of &#8220;stuff&#8221; on the other side.  Eliz has the inventory side pretty organized at this point and my dad is amazed how it looks like a little warehouse.</span></p>
<p><span style="font-size: 13.1944px;">We head back up the stairs, my dad, then me.  Again, I&#8217;m close in case he stumbles.  My dad is 92 and a fall for him could be catastrophic.  I start thinking that me leading him around and trying to tell him about obstacles was like the blind leading the blind.  Literally. </span></p>
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		<pubDate>Sat, 19 Jun 2010 05:27:18 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description><![CDATA[I haven&#8217;t posted an update for about three weeks.  In that time, my vision still sucks and I&#8217;m wondering if I made the right choice to have the surgery.  I visited the retina specialist on Tuesday and was told that there isn&#8217;t much difference on the macular edema from the last visit about a month [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/06/19/its-been-a-few-weeks-not-much-new/">It&#8217;s Been a Few Weeks, Not Much New</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I haven&#8217;t posted an update for about three weeks.  In that time, my vision still sucks and I&#8217;m wondering if I made the right choice to have the surgery.  I visited the retina specialist on Tuesday and was told that there isn&#8217;t much difference on the macular edema from the last visit about a month ago (and that was only slightly different from earlier this year.)  Seems a bit odd since during my appointment in May, he was able to point out the differences with my OCT scan then and the one earlier this year.  I was also told that I had a bit of swelling in my cornea (cornea edema.)  I don&#8217;t recall if that was an issue at my last cornea doc visit, but I&#8217;m scheduled to visit him this coming Tuesday (22 June,) so I&#8217;ll ask.  At this point, my vision seems to fluctuate between slightly better than before the surgery to worse than before the surgery.</p>
<p>It is so frustrating to me that nothing can be done to get me back to where I was just days after the surgery.  For about 10 days from 18 April, my vision was the best it had been in years.  Seems now like that was a cruel tease.  I&#8217;m getting tired of running to the doctors multiple times per month and not making progress.</p>
<p>In other news, Jacob is in Japan with a group of students from Westtown.  The last few days they&#8217;ve stayed in Kyoto and taken day trips by rail to other cities and sites (Hiroshima, Miyagima-guchi, Miyagima, Kinkaku-ji.)  Sunday, they move on to Tokyo where they meet their host families and prepare for a week at <a title="Jacob is going to school in Tokyo for a week at Tamagawa!" href="http://www.tamagawa.jp/en/" target="_blank">Tamagawa</a>, Westtown&#8217;s sister school in Japan.  The family Jake is staying with has a boy a year or two younger than Jake and seems to live a bit of distance away from the school.  Eliz and I hope Jake can manage the train transfers&#8230;</p>
<p>Jane is looking forward to meeting her favorite band All Time Low on Sunday at meet and greet during <a title="Jane is going to meet All Time Low in Philadelphia!" href="http://party.thebamboozle.com/profile/TheBamboozleRoadshow" target="_blank">The Bamboozle Roadshow</a>.  Monday, she heads to softball camp at Villanova for a week.  She is also doing two weeks at an overnight camp at Bryn Mawr College in July and going to the Outer Banks in August with Margaret, Meghan, and Chris.  Did I mention she spent yesterday (Thursday) in New York with her friend Rachel?</p>
<p>Since Eliz and Jane won&#8217;t be here on Sunday, I&#8217;m planning a day of football&#8230;  Well, at least the last two games (Azzurri/All Whites and Brazil/Ivory Coast (sorry Slovakia/Paraguay, I&#8217;m not rolling out of bed at 7.30am.)  So, if you want to watch some footie, come on over!</p>
<p>Finally, I&#8217;ve lost another pound, which I am trying not to do.  I&#8217;m trying to maintain 163 pounds, but have been between 161 and 162 the last couple of days.  I&#8217;ve bumped to 1800 calories per day (from 1700) to try not to lose any additional weight.  It&#8217;s been tough this week, because we&#8217;ve eaten out four times and I&#8217;ve had to estimate my calories once and calculate my calories after the fact another time.  By the time I added &#8216;em up, I was short by 200 calories (ate 1600 calories) and it was too late to have anything else if I wanted to go to sleep by 2.00am.  At 161, I&#8217;m down 73 pounds since I started on 10 December 2009.</p>
<p>More next week, after my cornea doc appointment.</p>
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		<description><![CDATA[I&#8217;ve been waiting for this week since the end of January, because I&#8217;m going to see the retina specialist on Friday.  I&#8217;m hoping he can do a PAM test on me.  No, it&#8217;s not part of the Aunt Jemima treatment, it stands for potential acuity meter.  It will let me, and, more importantly, my team [...]<p><font size="1"><a href="http://www.iCantCU.com/2010/02/23/this-and-that/">This and That</a> is a post from: <a href="http://icantcu.com">ICantCU.com</a>   |   &copy; 2009, <a href="http://www.iCantCU.com">iCantCU.com</a>. All Rights Reserved.</font></p>
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve been waiting for this week since the end of January, because I&#8217;m going to see the retina specialist on Friday.  I&#8217;m hoping he can do a PAM test on me.  No, it&#8217;s not part of the Aunt Jemima treatment, it stands for potential acuity meter.  It will let me, and, more importantly, my team of eye specialists know how much of the &#8220;current&#8221; vision loss is due to the cataract in my left eye.  I would hope it would come back 20/200 or better.  If not, it might be time to rent a gun and buy a bullet.  (Relax, I&#8217;m only joking.  I&#8217;m worth far too much dead to take my own life.)  Even without a PAM test, I&#8217;m hoping that Dr. Garg (retina) will give the okay for me to have Dr. Ayers (cornea) takeout the cataract.  As much as I&#8217;ve loved the snow this winter, I don&#8217;t want it to foul up my 8:45am appointment in Bala on Friday.  I see Dr. Ayers on 3 March and I&#8217;d like to schedule the cataract surgery then.  I&#8217;ve gotta do something, it seems like my vision is getting worse by the day.  My frustration level is extremely high.</p>
<p>On Wednesday, I&#8217;ve got an appointment with my GP.  It was postponed from 10 Feb due to the little bit of snow we had (not to mention the lack of power and heat too.)  When I saw Dr. Rist on 9 Dec, she told me to lose weight.  Since then I&#8217;ve eaten only about 1500 calories per day.  On days that I did some physical work like shovel snow, move our store inventory, etc., I would eat more calories as a reward.  As of this morning, I am down 41 pounds.  I&#8217;m interested to see what she says.</p>
<p>Jake is spending the week living at school, something he will have to do for his junior and senior years at Westtown.  We dropped him off on Sunday and will pick him up this Sunday.  He was really looking forward to it.  Then, when we got there, he noticed a Super Nintendo game system (circa 1991.)  The seniors whose room he and his friend are staying in left them a note saying that they could play with the system.  We have a couple of games from the video store that Jake has always wanted to play, but we never had the system (well, we had it, but upgraded to something else before he was born.)  I&#8217;m worried that school work might not be first on his mind this week.  Eliz picked him up some candy from BJ&#8217;s the other day.  You know, BJ&#8217;s doesn&#8217;t sell anything in small amounts.  She got him a variety bag of candy bars (not the fun size, the normal size) and a bag with god know how many packages of Skittles in it.  He posted today on Facebook that he was selling the candy.  Prices were $.50 for candy available in the school store and $1.00 for candy not carried in the school store.  I&#8217;m interested to see what he does with the funds, though his intentions could be philanthropic.</p>
<p>Jane found her letters from Tabitha tonight.  Tabitha was conjured up when Jake literally lost his first tooth.  It either fell out onto the ground or he swallowed it with his lunch that day at Granite Run Mall.  He was disappointed because he was so looking forward to putting it under his pillow for the toothfairy.  That night, after he went to bed, I wrote a letter from Tabitha, a toothfair from the North American office.  I expected it to be a one and done sort of thing, but when he lost his next tooth, we was just as excited to get another letter as he was to get the money.  And of course, if you do it for one, the other has to have it too&#8230;  Jane actually got a letter or two before she even lost a tooth.  She would sometimes leave notes for Tabitha under her pillow.  Jane laughs at the letters now, but she had fun reading them tonight.  She said each one had a little education, like Sesame Street.  I also would include things that I thought would boost their confidence and nudges on nutrition.  One day I&#8217;ll post them or publish them.</p>
<p>It is amazing how easy 700 words comes off my fingertips these days&#8230;  So much for a short update.  More later this week on the retina appointment.</p>
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