I Can’t See Very Well, But My Hearing is Still Good

We visited my parents today. We spent about an hour with them. After we left my parent’s apartment, we were walking down the hall where a couple was sitting. As we walked past, Eliz greeted them. We didn’t know them, but everyone there usually says ‘hello’ as you pass them by. After we were 15 or 20 feet down the hall, the guy says to the women, “Did you see that guy looking down?” He insinuated that I couldn’t be bothered to look up.

Generally, I walk behind Eliz in the halls there because they are a little narrow to walk side by side and I don’t want to walk into any one. I look down and concentrate on Eliz shoes so I don’t run into her. I’ve found in the past, if I look straight ahead, I run into her if she stops or slows down when there are other people in the hall that may be blocking our way.

That guy’s comments irritated me. Obviously, I look fairly normal, so there is no way he would know that I’ve got sight issues. He made the comments after he thought we were far enough away that we wouldn’t hear them. I heard them and didn’t appreciate them. Am I too sensitive? Probably. I try so hard to be normal that when someone makes a comment like that it gets under my skin.

This is my last post for 2010. Okay, stop cheering, there’ll be more in 2011. Jacob has gone to his friend Andrew’s for the night and Jane has a couple friends here to ring in 2011. Eliz and I have the Veuve Clicquot chilled and a couple of movies to watch. I’d like to wish all of you a happy, healthy and prosperous 2011!

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My Eye, My Dad and Our Day

I’d been looking forward to today for the past dozen days. Back on 10 Dec, I went to my retina doc, who, as previously mentioned, noticed three things that he thought were causing my vision to be worse than it had been. Two of three “issues” were cornea related, while one was retina related (and not correctable.) Today, I had an appointment with my cornea doc, Dr. Ayres.

As I was getting out of the shower, I heard the phone ring. Jacob answered it downstairs. Since he didn’t come up to mention the call, I figured it wasn’t for me. Minutes later, after taking my morning eye drop, Jake came in and told me my mom called. He went on to tell me that my mom said my dad was having shortness of breath and chest discomfort and they were going to the hospital. I sat back on the bed and thought about canceling my appointment. Since my mom didn’t ask to get me on the phone, I assumed it was a precautionary trip to the hospital (I later found out my dad didn’t want to go to the hospital, but since he mentioned chest pain, the Maris Grove staff wouldn’t take no for an answer.) I tried to reach my mom on her mobile, but didn’t get an answer. I felt selfish, but I decided I’d keep my doctor’s appointment.

We arrived early for my 9.45 appointment (seven minutes is early for us…) After we checked in, Eliz tried to call my mom. She got the voicemail (and knowing my mom can barely make and receive calls, didn’t leave a message. A minute or two later, Eliz’s phone rang and she handed the phone to me since she needed some insurance info for the receptionist. It was my mom. I spoke to her and then my dad. My mom told me what was going on. My dad told me, “Don’t count the money yet.” At that point, I felt I made the right decision to go to my appointment.

A few minutes later, I went back into (Eye) Pod 1. I was able to read the L (but not the S) on the SL line (which is the 20/200 line.) Dr. Ayres came in a few minutes later. He asked how things were going and I told him about my appointment 12 days earlier with Dr. Garg. He seemed to get defensive when I told him what Dr. Garg said. Dr. Ayres then had a look at both eyes. He started on the right one and quickly moved on to the left after saying, “That one is trash.” This I already knew. I haven’t seen anything but light with that eye since the last century… After he looked at the left eye he told me that it looked pretty similar as previous visits.

He said the transplant looked good, though was less than perfect. (It’s from a 69 year old donor and I’ve had it for two years.) He didn’t see signs of rejection. He said he could do another transplant if I wanted, but he didn’t think it could be too much better. The downside was too steep for me, so we’ll revisit that at a later date. Dr. Ayres also noticed a bit of haze behind the lens implanted in the cataract extraction in April of this year. It’s called posterior capsule opacity. It can be dealt with doing a procedure called YAG laser capsulotomy. He said there is very little downside to this, so I am scheduled to have this done on 20 January. I’m not sure if this counts as my 16th surgery or not…

Once we finished up with my appointment, we headed down Route 1 to Riddle Hospital to see my dad. We spent about three hours with him. The cardiologist met with all of us and said he didn’t think the problem was a heart issue. After running Jane to a friends for a birthday party and a trip to Newark DE to pick up a small order, we returned to Riddle at 5.15. We visited with my dad for about 45 minutes and then took my mom home, stopping for dinner on the way (she treated us to Ruby’s Diner.) My dad was tired and seemed to want us to go. Hopefully he gets some rest and is able to go home tomorrow.

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I Did It All By Myself

Most, if not all of you, will think this isn’t really a big deal.  ”Normal” people do this all the time.  What did I do on my own worth writing about, you ask?  I navigated about one-third of the Court at King of Prussia from The Walking Company on the lower level to California Pizza Kitchen on the second level to put our name in for lunch.  I did it without running into any one or any thing.  On Black Friday.  (Though the Court didn’t seem much busier than an above average weekend.  On the other hand, the Plaza was mobbed.  But I digress.)  Sure, by the time I actually got to the hostess, Eliz and Jane had arrived.  I told the hostess my name and the number in our party (four) when I thought she was looking at me.  That was after I had to interrupt Allison, a women in line behind me who either has vision issues as bad as mine or was just really hungry and couldn’t wait to pur her name on the list.

It is always a big deal to me when I do something on my own, but especially as of late.  My vision has been exceptionally poor over the past week to the point that I have spent less time on the computer because it is such a struggle to read most things.  When Eliz and Jane went into The Walking Company, I told them that I’d go put our name in at CPK.  After walking past a few storefronts, I realized it was not going to be easy.  The people I was walking behind went into a store and there wasn’t anyone close enough to follow that was heading the same direction as I was heading.  To make matters worse, there were two groups of people coming from my left and heading to some of the stores on my right.  It kind of felt like Asteroids.  Once I passed those groups I realized I had to go to the upper level to get to the restaurant, which wasn’t too big a deal as long as I could locate the stairs.  Looking around for me while walking is pretty tough, but I didn’t want to stop because I’m stubborn and I wouldn’t need to stop if I had better vision.  I kept moving.

I found my way to the stairs, but just as I got there two people, who were together, were coming down side by side completely blocking my way.  I paused for a second to allow them to get to the landing and then made my way up.  From the top of the stairs to CPK the only thing I nearly ran into was plastic Caution sign.  I avoided the sign and walked into the restaurant.  I made it!  After that, the 30 minute wait for a table was a piece of cake.  If you were wondering, I had a half size of the grilled veggie salad with grilled shrimp.  Only 512 calories and very delicious.

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